As the saying goes, “You’re either born to it or you don’t.” This is a great reminder when things are going great, and a very realistic one when things fall apart. When things go wrong, especially when they go wrong spectacularly, it’s easy to feel like we were born to it. It’s just that we weren’t born to it in the first place.
The “I was born to it” mindset is very important to you. You never get tired of it and you just want to be the one who gets the credit for anything. If you want to create a new life for yourself, you need to be able to put the blame on the people you love and what they do.
That’s not easy to do, especially when other people are involved, but in this case it’s exactly what you need to be. When things get really bad for a loved one, it’s easy to feel like it’s someone else’s fault. You’re so used to being the bad guy that you don’t know how to be good. That’s your own fault for letting it get so bad.
Your average life has been all about the people you love. Your work ethic has been all about the people you love. Your relationship with the people you love is all about how you feel about that person.
That doesn’t mean you can’t be the good guy. That means you have to be more than just the one who loves the people you work for. You have to be a more mature, balanced, and self-aware person.
If we’re being honest, those of us with a little bit of a self-awareness have seen the benefits of living life on the side of the good guy.
In the end, the good guy works for the people he loves. The bad guy works for the people they hate. The person who doesn’t know what the fuck he’s doing works for the people he’s trying to kill. And the person who is just trying to get by works for the people he’s trying to kill with a gun.
It’s a fact of life that society is, in all likelihood, working against you. You may be surrounded by people who do you wrong (or even hate you), but they can also be part of a larger, evil system. You cannot escape without changing the system. As a society, we need to stop having people think they’re above the law, or that they can get away with murder. There is no time for people to just come up to you and ask for money.
The one thing you can do is not to be so naive that you think you can just walk away. This doesn’t mean you cannot fight back, but it does mean you must start taking care of yourself first. The people who want you to change the system are the ones that are actively trying to stop you from doing so.
The problem is that most of us do not realize the effect of our actions. We think its just the system we live in that is to blame, but its really two systems. The system that we live in, and the one that is causing us to feel so powerless, is a system of control that we have been forced to accept. The other system is the one that is designed to keep us in a victim mindset that we no longer control. That system is the internet.
